Oh Hubs Is Gonna LOVE Me...

Being as its Valentine’s Day and all, I decided today would be the perfect day to tell you guys about a kick ass little resource I found. Before I do, lemme tell ya why I was looking for this kind of thing in the first place.

Now you all know that sometimes things get a little stale. And I’m not talkin’ about the day-old bread-if ya know what I mean. Statistically speaking, should a marriage end in the big D, it will happen somewhere around year 2, year 7 and year 20. So guess where Hubs and I are.

Yep, year 7.

Now I don’t anticipate our marriage ending or anything. Assuming he remember to take out the trash tonight. And I don’t think either of us have the true “Seven-Year-Itch” or anything. But what we do have is a crazy schedule, a teen and a tween, work stress, a dirty house, in-law BS and exhausted bodies.

Things wane.

It’s a fact of life and marriage.

And it’s a fact, that blows.

SO…I went searching for some ideas and advice to spice up certain aspects of our-Ahem-schedule.

One of the things I found surprised the hell outta me.

It’s this:



That’s right, EdenCafe, an unexpected part of EdenFantasys. I was floored. Srsly, guys-you gotta check this out. It’s real people, dealing with real-life stuff, blogging and commenting to help each other out. They have sections for Families, Body Image and Health, Couples, Porn, Kinks-you got it, you can find information and someone to connect with right here!

You wouldn’t believe just how many people are experiencing the same thing Hubs and I! While you’re there-check out their giveaways! One of the prizes might be just the needed ‘pick-me-up’!

I’ve gleaned tons of ideas, have some new tricks up my sleeve, and have been able to surprise the holylivincrap outta Hubs.

Let’s just say things are… looking up. *wink, wink*